Have been on a first date and had it go so well that you have finalized the second date? The first date was all about getting to know each other, which will make the second date that much special to make a connection. If she has agreed to go on a second date with you, one thing is clear, she had a gala time with you on the first date and wanted to spend some more time with you, knowing you better.
One way you can screw up your second date is by becoming too nervous. Remember, the heavy lifting has already been done, now is time to make that count. It’s okay to have been nervous on the first date –now you know the other person at least well enough to strike continuous conversations. So, no panicking.
The second date is exciting in itself. It’s the time you would be spending in knowing each other’s interests, real lives and much more than what was not possible in the first meeting. It is, therefore, important to understand some benefits of being on the second date to make it count.
When I worked as an escort, landing a second date with a client was always an exciting time. Knowing that you left such a good impression on the person that they wanted to come back and see you again. It also made the agency that I was working for very happy in the effort I had been making.
It’s the time to show your real self
On the first outing – the first date – it was fine to be classic; the second date gives you a chance to branch out and reveal your actual self. If you were somehow uncomfortable on the first date, the second date is your chance to relax and be more comfortable in the company of your date.
It’s a good chance to follow up from where you left
There is a good chance you have left after the first date wondering if your date had a good time with you or not. The notion is explained with affirmation for the second meeting. Grab on to this opportunity to create a strong connection with the other person.
If there was something you goofed up with in the first date, the second date is your best bet to acknowledge it. This date is a chance for you to show how attentive you were on the first date with your escort. In addition to acknowledging your goof up, take time to run through the conversation you had on the first date. Talk elaborately on the interests your date shared or express interest in a work assignment or a trip she was telling you.
You have the leverage to surprise your date
It is just fine to add an element of surprise to the second date. You can do this by choosing a place she didn’t know she was going, or by doing anything that can enhance the overall excitement of the date. Don’t go overboard to show yourself as a dancing monkey trying hard to entertain. Do something out of the ordinary that can make her smile and be comfortable spending time with you.
When you’re on the second date with a person who you have begun to connect with, the date feels like sheer magic. The conversation becomes smooth; there is sensuality in the chemistry, and you begin to wish the day never ends.